Has your partner ever thrown things at you or hit you?
Did your partner ever make you have sex when you didn't want to?
Do you find yourself making excuses for injuries caused by your partner?
Does your partner accuse you of sleeping around when you are not?
Does your partner control your money, where you go, what you do?
Has your partner ever threatened to take the children?
Does your partner keep you from seeing friends and family?
Has your partner's behavior become more violent; has this violent behavior happened more often?
Are you always watching what you say or do, afraid you'll do something "wrong"?
Does your partner's behavior make you so tired, afraid and/or depressed that you wonder if you're going "crazy"?
